Leave Him There, Go On Without Him!

In my perfect world, all my exes would be friends with me. I liked them for a reason! I wish, I wish with all my heart that more people could compartmentalize and manage emotions in the way that I do.

However, they cannot. I am the pariah and they are the majority. I have a select few favorite exes (situational and real relationships) that I've always hoped would come around. I saw the best in them and despite their romantic shortcomings, they're great people. Recently, however, I've come to the realization that they will never get there. Unfortunately for them and fortunately for me, I am evolving far too rapidly for them to ever be able to catch up. It would take a miracle for those poor fools to get to the beginning of where I was when I first met them. That's the case for most members of the male species. We, women, femmes are emotionally superior. In this modern world where machines build homes and hunt for food, the male brain is becoming obselete and they are struggling to be useful. I've been seeing someone for 1.5 years. In those 1.5 years, I've socialized my way through the city, boomed a profitable business, sold 100s of my books, starred in 4 plays, cultivated strong friendships, invested in my health, and even expanded my skills into the education field. I have upgraded to a man that spoils me endlessly, would do anything for me, and is unashamed of his devotion. Some of my favorite exes spent over a year watching this unfold on poorly hidden burner accounts. Tragic, I know. Then, instead of progressing themselves, they took an attitude of defeat and downgraded real bad in every aspect of their lives. How do I know this? I am in touch with God. God reveals all to me. I asked Allah to give me signs that I am on the right track and he revealed to me 3 of my exes over 3 days. All stuck in karmic patterns and wasting their potential. Each time I saw them I was reaping the fruits of my labor as they wallowed in the shit they'd never cleaned up.

I share this to say, you should leave him and never look back. If and I mean if they are lucky enough to catch up to you, they will find you.